When youвЂ™re content along with your partner being polyamorous, youвЂ™ll completely trust you no matter how many other partners they have that they love. Like numerous other poly individuals, IвЂ™ve been subject to poly-shaming by individuals even though I happened to be direct about my desires. The fact we are now living in a mononormative tradition doesnвЂ™t justify any mistreatment. I’m maybe not ashamed about sharing more than one person to my love. If youвЂ™re monogamous and also you value your poly partnerвЂ™s satisfaction, youвЂ™ll support their right to love easily rather than hold them to ethics they donвЂ™t have confidence in.
Keep in mind that unrelenting jealousy my exвЂ™s wife spoke of? She also stated those feelings had been strongly outweighed by the known proven fact that she knew just how much her husband enjoyed her. She had been confident inside her knowledge that no body could just take her destination. That sense of security and contentedness is key to effective mono/poly relationships.